January 21, 2020

Obstacles are the Stepping Stones of Success

Harvey B. Mackay 226x300 Obstacles are the Stepping Stones of SuccessA man was walking in the park one day when he came upon a cocoon with a small opening.  He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole.  When it seemed to stop making any progress the man decided to help the butterfly.  He used his pocketknife and snipped the remaining bit of the cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily, but something was strange.  The butterfly had a swollen body and shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected at any moment the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.  Neither happened.  In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and deformed wings.  It was never able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to emerge was natural.  It was nature’s way of forcing fluid from its body into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom.  Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives.

History has shown us that the most celebrated winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed.  They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.

My good friend, Lou Holtz, football coach of the University of South Carolina, once told me, “Show me someone who has done something worthwhile, and I’ll show you someone who has overcome adversity.”

Beethoven composed his greatest works after becoming deaf.  George Washington was snowed in through a treacherous winter at Valley Forge.  Abraham Lincoln was raised in poverty.  Albert Einstein was called a slow learner, retarded and uneducable.  If Christopher Columbus had turned back, no one could have blamed him, considering the constant adversity he endured.

As an elementary student, actor James Earl Jones (a.k.a. Darth Vader) stuttered so badly he communicated with friends and teachers using written notes.

Itzhak Perlman, the incomparable concert violinist, was born to parents who survived a Nazi concentration camp and has been paralyzed from the waist down since the age of four.

Chester Carlson, a young inventor, took his idea to 20 big corporations in the 1940′s.  After seven years of rejections, he was able to persuade Haloid, a small company in Rochester, N.Y., to purchase the rights to his electrostatic paper – copying process.  Haloid has since become the Xerox Corporation.

Thomas Edison tried over 2,000 experiments before he was able to get his light bulb to work.  Upon being asked how he felt about failing so many times, he replied, “I never failed once.  I invented the light bulb.  It just happened to be a 2,000-step process.”

Persistence paid off for General Douglas MacArthur.  After applying for admission to West Point twice, he applied a third time and was accepted.  The rest is history.

In 1927 the head instructor of the John Murray Anderson Drama School, instructed student Lucille Ball, to “Try any other profession.  Any other.”

Helen Keller, the famous blind author and speaker, said: “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet.  Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved.  Silver is purified in fire and so are we.  It is in the most trying times that our real character is shaped and revealed.”

Reprinted with permission from nationally syndicated columnist Harvey Mackay, author of the New York Times #1 bestseller “Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive.”

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